Grayden, you are 1 week old!

Tuesday, May 19, 2009

Grayden turned 1 week old today! He has been such a good baby so far and we are making sure we appreciate all the sleep we get now because we know it's about to change!

  Grayden you:

usually sleep from around 12:30am-4:00am and then from 4:30am,-7:30am


you eat about every 3-4 hours and never more than 5


you are eating 2 oz at a time of Similac advance formula



you make the cutest chugging/slurping noises when you eat...so yummy!


you let out a BIG burp after half your bottle is gone and have never spit up! 


when you are getting full you keep sucking but don't swallow so it comes dribbling out the sides


are read to every night





you have the cutest dimples



have dark hairs on your ears! and light hair on your back



you hate baths but love to have your hair washed.


you scream when we change your clothes or your diaper



you love your paci's; any kind




and love your swing






you like the car seat, even though it may not look like it here, that is your famous 'scowl'.




and you recently found your hands and suck them


you are very strong and can hold your head up and whip it around like a crazy man.




you have the hicups at least once a day.


you fold your hands so sweetly






you love to be held





wear newborn size diapers




wear newborn size clothes




you are sleeping in your crib..such a big boy!



already went to church your first Sunday




you weigh 8.4 oz now




you are such a JOY!



today was a big day for you! you had your newborn photo shoot and did so super good! 









at night we got a very important email from your bmom and she said that she loves you so much and really wants you to be happy and she said she knows you are where you are supposed to be!! That means she wants you to live with us forever! 


We thanked God together and cried, we are so happy to hear that your bmom and bdad are at peace with their decision and we continue to pray for that peace.


Right after we read that, daddy changed your diaper and your cord fell off! We think that means you are ready to lose that physicalconnection to your bmom. Of course you will never lose the emotional relationship but we thought that was quite a significant coincidence! 


you have so many people who love you and are praying for you and we are so thankful for that, we hope that they continue to pray for you as you grow, for us as your parents that we can be the best parents to you and raise you to love Jesus, and for your bmom and bdad that God will heal their hurting hearts. 




Happy 1 week sweet boy!

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Joyfully announcing....

Wednesday, May 13, 2009

the arrival of.....

Grayden Robert Lubbers
5/12/09
9:51 pm
8lbs 10oz 21.5" long

he is so handsome!





Brenham's

We are so in love!
I'll update more when the time comes but right now we are enjoying this precious gift from God and praising Him for his faithfulness!
"No more pictures Mom..."
sorry, he's the boss around here lately :)
Thank you all for your continued prayers...we are so blessed!

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watcha readin'?

Tuesday, May 12, 2009

My sister is looking for some book recommendations to read this summer. Anybody have some to suggest to her?
(something other than the Twilight Series!)
Thanks!

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My 2nd Mother's Day without you

Sunday, May 10, 2009


I miss you sweet boy, thank you for the honor it is to be your mommy. I love you so much and as always can't wait for the day when we are united again. You have blessed my life in so many ways, you are such a gift!

To our own moms~ We love you very much! Thank you for your unconditional love and support. Happy Mother's Day!

To all you other mothers out there I'd like to wish you a Happy Mother's Day, may your children continue to bless and enrich your lives each and every day!
To all you mothers out there without your children here to hug today, Happy Mother's Day and know you are in my prayers on this difficult day. Your children may not be here to make you breakfast in bed today but they love you so very much. You are great mommies.
And to all you women who long to be a mother, this day is especially difficult for you as well. Today as you sit in silence and tears as the mothers glow from happiness on their special day, know you are being prayed for as well. May God bless you and multiply your families in His own perfect timing.
Love and Prayers~
Katie

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Our Weekend Getaway

Thursday, May 7, 2009

Robb and I had a great time last weekend getting away to Traverse City for awhile. We basically decided to go three days before and just packed a bag and took off without any plans. We just went with the flow and had a great time!


We left after Robb got home from work on Friday and stopped to eat at 'Bennigans' on the way up. (we didnt mean to wear matching colors...but I did read that the nautical theme is HOT this season!)After dinner we drove the rest of the way to Traverse City and enjoyed the beautiful sky as we drove!




The first hotel we came upon in Traverse was the Great Wolf Lodge so we checked if they had any rooms left and they did so we booked a room and and hung out in the water park the next morning. We had to check out of the room at 11 but we could stay in the water park as long as we wanted so we had to get ready in the water park bathroom when we were ready to leave! It was so funny I was laughing at myself...I must have looked like such a nut! Don't ya think?!?

So since we didn't have a plan we drove around downtown for awhile in the afternoon until we saw a bike rental shop and decided to be adventurous and rented a tandem bike! It was a blast and I am so glad we did it! I think we biked about 15 miles with a few stops for some pictures and lunch along the way..we had fried pickles...my fave! (who thinks they know where we ate?!)





After we burnt off so much energy we HAD to head to the famous 'Moomers' (voted America's best homemade ice cream by Good Morning America!) It was just as good as they say!


And we couldn't go to Traverse City without a little shopping, so hit up a small outlet mall before we found another hotel to check into for the second night. We relaxed in the room until we headed out again for the Cherry Bowl Drive-In Movie Theater...which was so much fun! Monsters vs. Aliens was the first feature and after that was Fast and Furious...it was such a great way to end or trip!


We headed for home the next morning!

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Wordless Wednesday

Wednesday, May 6, 2009

explanation and more picture to come!

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catching up

Friday, May 1, 2009

its been a busy few weeks around here. Here's what we've been up to.

Last weekend I spent some time preparing some meals to add to our freezer stash...I made a total of 12 meals~ almost all of them being blog reader suggested...they look so good~we cant wait to try them! This first batch I completed all in the time it took to listen to the whole 'All That I Can Say' cd~(thanks Kate!) By the time the last song ended they were in the freezer and the second batch went about half as fast with the help of my sister Lisa.

We also went to see Steven Curtis Champan and Michael W. Smith in concert last week...they were amazing and we had such a great time. My favorite part was to hear Steven Curtis Champan talk about their stories of adoption and the loss of their daughter Maria...it definitely hit home in many ways. Thanks Ms. 'Usher Lady' (sorry I didnt catch you name :) for your hug and encouragement! I am so glad you said hi!




On the 25th we were honored to witness the wedding vows exchanged by Nicole and Chad! It was such a beautiful wedding and Nicole made a beautiful bride. I hope they are having a great time in Mexico on there honeymoon and praying they stay away from the piggies ;)






We are going a little stir crazy waiting for a certain phone call so we decided to make a last minute weekend getaway to Traverse City...we dont have anything planned~ we are just going. and we are really looking forward to spending some time as a couple while we can! We'll share all about it when we get back.

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Crazy eights

Tuesday, April 28, 2009

Thanks Jacyln for the tag! It's given me the gentle nudge to get back on this blog...(which reminds me I have lots to update on sometime!)

Here are the rules of the game:
-Mention the person that tagged you.
-Complete the following lists of 8's.
-Tag 8 of your wonderful bloggy friends.
-Go tell them you tagged them!

Eight Things I'm Looking Forward To:

1) our baby boy being born!
2) holding our baby boy for the first time
3.) bringing our baby boy home
4.) spending eternity in Heaven
5.) The day when laundry does itself
6.) Going garage sale-ing tomorrow
7.) Having a big family someday
8.) The Biggest Loser to start tonight

Eight Things I Did Yesterday:

well I was in bed with the flu so this will be kinda boring
1.) puked a few times
2.) slept
3.) read some blogs
4.) moved from the bed to the couch
5.) called Robb
6.) called my mom to ask her to let Pacey outside
7.) checked my email
8 ) watched dancing with the stars

Eight Things I Wish I Could Do:

1.) dance...i try but its kinda embarrassing..ask our youth group kids!
2.) save lives
3.) cure cancer
4.) take good photographs
5.) see Brenham today
6.) donate blood
7.) sew
8.) tone up without exercising ;)

Eight Shows I watch:
1.) Dancing with the stars
2.) Biggest Loser
3.) Grey's Anatomy
4.) Private Practice
5.) Jon and Kate plus 8 (its like a bad accident...you cant help but take a look!)
6.) One Tree Hill
7.) The Doctors
8. ) King of Queens (so funny!)

So I tag~
Krista from J and K
Emily from The Haight Family
Anne from A Truly Grand Haven
Mindy from Life as a Wife
Nicole from From Gummy Bear to Sweet Baby
Sandy from Life+Baby
Courtney from One Foot Forward
Allie from ✝º˚∴aLLie∴˚º✝

Have Fun Girls!

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Happy Earth Day

Wednesday, April 22, 2009

Who's going to Wal.green's today with this coupon?
(not sure when this blog turned into 'savings r us' but I am kinda liking it! One of many changes about to happen on this blog in the near future! :)
p.s thanks for the money saving tips in the last post and also for the delicious recipes you shared, I have tried a couple so far and have plans to do some more meal preparation this weekend.

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Ebates

Monday, April 20, 2009

Frugal Tip (what mom doesn't have a few of those!):

Has anyone heard about or use Ebates? My sisters introduced me to ebates awhile back and it's earned me a few dollars so far just by shopping online (not too hard for me!) Basically you just follow this link and sign up for free. Then any time you do any online shopping log in to your ebates account and see if the site you are shopping on offers any Ebates coupons or cash back rebates. The ones I use the most are Shutterfly, Target, E-bay, and Gap but there are TONS more! Make your purchase and within a few days your cash back rebate (anywhere from 1-10% of your total purchase) will be applied to your account. Ebates mails you a check every 3 months! You get $5 just for signing up! And if you refer any friends you get an additional $5! Pretty easy way to earn a few bucks just by shopping! Gotta Love that!

Do you have any frugal tips to share with me? I am always looking for new money saving ideas!

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Adoption Movies

Thursday, April 16, 2009

next time you have some time on your hands and if you are looking to learn more about adoption and hear some real life stories...go here and watch some of the videos.
It is hard to find accurate presentations of adoption stories these days...they all seem so old fashioned and are usually full of 'adoption myths'. But these are some good real-life ones. The first one 'Neumann/Jolly' is really good if you are looking for a story about an open domestic adoption. And the 'Champan/Turner/Kemp' one is the story about Steven Curtis Champan's family's journey to China to adopt their girls.
But I am warning you...have the tissues handy and be prepared to fight the urge to run (not walk) to your nearest adoption agency office and sign yourself up to adopt (as if it was that easy!)....it will tug at your heart. I want to do it all over again someday and we aren't even finished with this one! Adoption is such a blessing.
Just thought I would pass that along.

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Wordless Wednesday

Wednesday, April 15, 2009

Easter Sunday
Me, Nicole, and Emily
at
Nicole's Bachelorette Party

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Sunday, April 12, 2009

~Happy Easter~



Christ the Lord has RISEN today! Hallelujah!

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Happy 6 months Paco-day!

Wednesday, April 8, 2009

time flies....6 months already?!?


(this really isnt a picture from the actual transplant day but I am too embarrassed to put those pictures up...i was a little out of it) (I love how my pain button is ever so conveniently draped across my chest for easy access!)
Happy 6 months Paco! I am so happy to have you!

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Share your favorites

Saturday, April 4, 2009

I've been trying to find some easy budget friendly meals to stock up the freezer with so when the little bee comes we have meals all ready and waiting for us.
I have become a huge fan of e-mealz.com.
Its a site that plans your weeks meals including side dishes along with the recipes that go with it. And even prepares the shopping list and the estimated total expense. Its just $5 a month and has been well worth it for us...it saves me time and money. I only buy what I need for those meals and it also motivates me to actually prepare those meals! Another really nice thing about it is you have the option to chose a menu plan that feeds either a whole family or just 2 people. I do the 2 people plan so I only prepare what we need so we dont end up with a bunch of leftovers. And they even do diet friendly menus like 'low carb', 'low fat', 'points system' and a vegatarian menu!
One of my favorite meals I've made from there site is:

Beef & Wild Rice Bake and Steamed Broccoli

1 box beef rice mix
1 can cr of mushroom soup
3 T chopped onion
3 stalks celery
1 lb ground beef, cooked
(3 T melted butter, 1 ½ T lemon juice, ¼ t pepper, ½ t Worcestershire, ½ t dry mustard)
1 c crushed potato chips
½ bunch broccoli
(Butter, salt)
Cook rice as pkg directs. Sauté onion & chopped celery in butter. Toss remaining ingredients together, except potato chips. Pour in casserole dish. Top with crushed potato chips. Cook at 375 for 25 min.
Steam broccoli. Season w/ butter & salt.

So there's one of my favorites.

Do you have a favorite recipe you would be willing to share with me? Specifically ones that freeze well? Or I am always using my crock-pot and would love to try new recipies for that too. Thanks!

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